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Strange Days (1995)
IMDB rating: 6.90
Plot: Ex-vice cop, Lenny Nero, is a loser who deals in VR clips - captured straight from the cerebral cortex - who uncovers that some things are not as they should be. Lenny keeps trying to protect old girlfriend Faith, a punk-rock singer, from her manager - and current boyfriend - the shady Philo Gant. Lenny’s hooker friend is brutally murdered - and the killer records his rape-kill and sends it to Lenny. Lenny must figure out who killed her, protect Faith, and come to terms with his life…
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Directors: Bigelow Kathryn
Actors: Fiennes Ralph,Sizemore Tom,Wincott Michael,D’Onofrio Vincent,Plummer Glenn,Edson Richard,Fichtner William,Sommer Josef,Urla Joe,Katt Nicky,Jace Michael,Action,Crime,Drama,Mystery,Sci-Fi,Thriller,
How is it that you can love someone so much in such a short time period?
I’m a 20yr old girl and iv known this friend of mine for 4 yrs now. We spoke every now and then because she was my brothers best friend. When my brother moved away 5 months ago, we started hanging out a lot more and became very close and very good friends! We see each other almost every day… We even moving in together at the end of this month!
I’m a lesbian and she knows this and is fine with it (she is bi). We have fooled around a few times, nothing extreme just making out.
My only concern is that i really really love her… and i love being her friend and i want to be more. she unfortunately has a boyfriend now.
I’m a little confused at the moment… the other night she told me to show her how much i love her… and i did, i only kissed her tho (it was a nice kiss!)… she knows that i like her and she told me she likes me to (in THAT way). But it hurts so much… i REALLY love her so much but then i have to see her with her boyfriend.
I’m wondering if its such a good idea that i move in with her… i get a pain in my chest when i see her and her boyfriend together. i also get a strange pain in my stomach when she touches me.
If i cant "have" her… ill be her friend…
What should i do??
she is turning 21 next month… and he does not know
Its simple, talk to her about it.
Tell her that it hurts you to see her and her boyfriend together. Be completely honest with her.
Youve fooled around with her and she enjoys your company. She reciprocates the same feelings yo have for her. It would be a bad idea to move in with her if you dont completely entrust her of your feelings. Yopu dont have to put her in a position where she’ll have to choose between you and her boyfriend. Just simply tell her your true feelings and let her decide for herself.
Just keep thinking that by talking to her you wont lose the friendship. You two seems like the best of friends and I think it would take a lot to break the bond together. Hope I helped and good luck babes.
romantichild | Dec 03, 2009
Wow, I feel for you.
Lemme state this, and I DO NOT mean to bash your friend or Bisexuals. Your friend perpetuates the stereotype and stigma that’s associated with bisexuals and promiscuity. But this has nothing to do with her being bi, and even if it did…it does not give her the right to be with two people at the same time. The fact that she does so…sheds some light as to who she is as a person.
Is her boyfriend aware of the two of you and the nature of your relationship with her? My guess is that he is not. But if he is, then she probably is taking advantage of the bisexual [fantasy] that hetero males tend to harbor….since they think they will see some girl on girl action and may likely get to participate. This behavior can spell trouble….precisely for what is happening now, new feelings can enter the picture.
Clearly your "friend" is aware of it with that comment she made "Show me how much you love me" etc. You did not mention the age of this friend. The nicest scenario I can offer is that she MAY BE young naive and discovering herself….however, she may also be much more savvy than you think she is and simply wants to have her cake and eat it too. Bisexuals may go with either gender as a partner, however they can be as monogamous like anyone else….or as flirtations and promiscuous like everyone else. It’s up to the individual and what they want out of that person. You need to speak with your friend and let her know that your feelings are not a joke or something to be toyed with. If she does not feel the same then move on [and just be her friend, if possible]
Schitts McGee | Dec 03, 2009
Romantic love is like that. That is it’s charm. Sadly, it can end just as quickly.
Gary | Dec 03, 2009
Pedro Bishop